Jim - Likewise, I appreciate your empathy. Greatly appreciated. While no one has said “poor child” or “unlucky couple,” I know what you mean.

I must say, though, I’m not quite sure I understand your ethereal lingo about “remaining in our mental identity”, or “the glory of existence.” What I am familiar with is my daughter’s created identity, and the glory of God in all of God’s creation, including God’s creation of my daughter. By her creator, she has truly been “beautifully & wonderfully made.” My prayer is that she would come to know that fully.

There is nothing in her (or our) current suffering that smudges or smears God’s glory, nor anything that detracts from God’s everpresent-ness with us in Jesus. By his presence, we do enjoy great peace.

“just fine”, may not feel right for the life situations your family has to experience, but it does appear perfectly accurate.

It is hard to understand any one’s role in the universe, but rest assured, all roles are critical, and the universe could not be even with the removal of a single cell from its present existence. We are where we have to be, doing exactly what is necessary. This is constant, our degree of suffering is variable.

It is only when we remain within our mental identity that Isabelle appears to lack by judgement. Those with healthy kids may prop their own sense of self by saying, “Look at that poor child, that unlucky couple.” Regardless of judgement, there she is - there is Isabelle for your awareness, and for her self-awareness as well. May she help to bring the glory of existence to you and all who are touched by her existence. May you enjoy peace.

Jim